Sunday, April 14, 2013

Thom and Life


There are two reasons why Thom’s coach tell him he cannot be on the team. The coach is reason for no longer letting Thom play on the team is because Thom suffers from seizures and this causes the school’s insurance to increase. Thom believes  the reason he was being dismissed from the team was because his sexual orientation made his coach feel uncomfortable. If I were Thom in this situation I would have cursed out my coach and called him out on dismissing me for my sexual orientation.  My family’s reaction to this would have been supportive because I belong to a very liberal minded family. Also, they would have made a visit to my coach’s offices and curse him out.
            Ruth tells Thom that he must live his life now. What she means by this was for Thom not wait for things to just magically appear and for his life to all of a sudden become great. Just like Thom, I have waited in the past for things just to turn up and be great. I have  learned in recent history that life just does not work like that. In order to be happy and live the life you want you have to work at it. The ways in which I work at being happy and securing a future of happiness  is by going out, meeting new people and doing my work. In my future I see myself having a good amount of money and a wife by my side. If I don’t go out and meet new people how will I ever meet my wife or make connections with people that will allow me to find a great job?
            “Everyone in the world should have at least one moment in their lifetime when an entire crowd of people cheers them on for something, one moment to feel exceptional, one moment that lets you know you really do mean something to the universe.” I am unsure if this quote applies to everyone and if it does to what extent. For myself I have received this type of attention before for speeches, awards and graduating from High School.  I can honestly say, I gain nothing from this type of attention because in my mind there’s always something else that has to be done. In other words, I have a hard time pausing and taking in that moment when I feel exceptional.
            Thom has his first kiss “under difficult emotional circumstances.” In my mind a perfect first kiss would be one that done with confidence. Does a first kiss ever turn out that way? No! Thom has a crush on a famous figure. I have been asked time and time again which famous figure/celebrity do I have a crush on. The answer to this is that I have not a single celebrity I have a crush on. People have crushes on celebrities for one single reason. This reason is because celebrities represent power in our society. Since I don’t believe one person it more powerful than the next I cannot relate to this view. I base my crushes on emotional intelligence and physical beauty.

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